Have you ever met someone for the first time and felt like you’ve known them forever? Or did you immediately feel drawn to someone else without feeling that way physically?
If so, you have likely experienced the attraction of emotional attraction, which is tied to a person’s heart, mind, or mood rather than their physical attractiveness.
Emotional attraction is a different and deeper type of attraction, he explains, because it not only draws you to someone but also connects you permanently and meaningfully.
And, unlike physical attraction, it often develops based on things like the other person’s values, their personality, and the way they care about them.
In today’s article, I am going to cover the dos and don’ts of rebuilding emotional intimacy with the person you love during this special time so that you are on your way to getting back together. I’ll explain how to make someone miss you during quarantine, the best lines of communication, and how to remotely re-establish an emotional connection. Do not be afraid, my friends; There are solutions to this problem!
How to rebuild emotional closeness with your ex: Healthy communication
When talking to your ex, be careful not to talk about the past. Remember, you are regaining emotional intimacy and working to inspire your ex. You want him to look forward to the future when he’s happy. When speaking to you, you want them to feel that there are positive things to look forward to. We don’t want to dwell in the past and conjure up the pain you both felt before!
Well, if your ex ever wants to talk about the past, practice empathy and don’t tune out. Just make sure that any conversation about the past is solution-oriented and positive. Another thing to keep in mind when trying to restore emotional intimacy is that you shouldn’t put your ex on a pedestal by pulling yourself down. Confidence and self-esteem are keys.
Additionally, you should never pretend your life is incomplete without your ex. They are not your saviors and pretending to just paint you in an unattractive way. Always remember: you have to be the exciting and inspiring challenge!
Even if you feel frustrated with the current situation, or even the situation you find yourself in with your ex, be careful never to blame your frustrations on him. Don’t let your feelings and emotions dictate the way you communicate, just make sure you are positive in everything you talk to and understand that there will be time to resolve issues and frustrations. It doesn’t have to happen all at once.
Therefore, I encourage you to show your caring, show gratitude and be there for them when they need to talk. Get them to talk about the things they love to do and the people they care about and show genuine interest in the things they do. Listen to understand the emotions the person you love is trying to convey.
Show him that you care by speaking his love language and confirming what you are feeling. People live on a sense of validation and this is also true of romantic relationships. It really is one of the best solutions to create intimacy and repair the bond between you!
How to build intimacy again with your ex from afar:
The best thing you can do for yourself and your relationship with your ex is to actively work to become the best version of yourself. It will ripple through all important aspects of your life and plans, and have an incredibly positive effect on your attempt to win back your ex and rebuild emotional intimacy together.
So always be positive, even when you’re frustrated with the situation (whether it’s your midlife in general and the uncertainty of everything to do, the challenges of getting an ex back, or the fact that you can’t see them), and don’t go. Never let negative emotions affect the way you behave with your ex.
Always make sure you have empathy without seeking its confirmation. Make your ex smile through your personality and the things you share with him, inspire him and always leave him wanting more.
The trick is to help the person you love to imagine a future where they can be happy together.
Life is very different right now, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get back with your ex and be happier than ever. Now is the time to do our part to flatten the curve and be happier than ever.
Come together as a company so that this storm passes as quickly as possible and it is the ideal time to focus on our personal wellbeing as well. The more you invest in your physical and mental health during this time, the better it gets, of course, but it will also make the process of getting your ex back a lot easier.
To Sum up
An emotional connection is a series of subjective feelings that come together to create a bond between two people. The word emotional means to arouse strong feelings. Feelings can be anger, sadness, joy, love, or any of the thousands of emotions people experience.
In order to build and strengthen a relationship, you need to develop an emotional connection. This type of relationship can be a friendship or a co-dependency situation of living together or the satisfaction of a sexual need. Without a strong emotional connection, you are doomed to frustrate one. or both partners and ultimately fail.